Your questions aren't being answered because you indicated the reason for your questions is that someone you reported wasn't banned ("I have been ... to get banned *so* was wondering how ... become a moderator.").
Since many users are delivering proof that your reason isn't really a valid one to ask for a moderator list (many cheaters do, in fact, get banned quickly), nobody feels the need to answer you questions.
Your first question has already been answered by @kettwiesel . Here's the answer to your second question, which you could've easily looked up yourself:
lichess.org/qa/560/how-does-one-become-a-moderator
Since many users are delivering proof that your reason isn't really a valid one to ask for a moderator list (many cheaters do, in fact, get banned quickly), nobody feels the need to answer you questions.
Your first question has already been answered by @kettwiesel . Here's the answer to your second question, which you could've easily looked up yourself:
lichess.org/qa/560/how-does-one-become-a-moderator